The Right Energy for Poker

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I’ve said the phrase “the right amount of energy” several times already and it’s about time I tell you what that actually means. For the answer we can turn to science, since this is a well-researched concept. The graphic below is called the Yerkes-Dodson Law, and it shows the relationship between energy and performance. Starting from the bottom left where your energy level is low, you’ll see that your performance is also low. Think about times when you were tired, unmotivated or bored—you didn’t play very well. That’s because you were lacking the energy needed to fuel your mind. On the flip side, the bottom right, your performance is equally poor because your energy level is so intense that it causes the mind to malfunction. Like an electrical circuit that overheats and shuts down, the mind can’t function properly when you’re overexcited, tilted, or fearful. At the top of the curve is that ideal balance, call it the Goldilocks of energy— not too much and not too little.

The Right Energy for Poker

Admittedly, the graphic isn’t perfect because it implies that having the right amount of energy guarantees you’ll be in the zone. I’ve realized more recently that is not the case. As I mentioned in the introduction, focus, data gathering and your decision-making process also play a distinct part in determining your level of performance.

Find Your Ideal Energy

You’ve been there before. You’re not too excited or aggressive, nor tired or disinterested. You’re rested. Recharged and ready to get to the tables to play some poker. Poker like this is a lot of fun. The nuances of poker pique your interest and the challenge is inspiring.

spot emotional signalsTo find this ideal level of energy again and again you first need to know what it’s like and the factors that produced it. How else can you know what you’re aiming to repeat? So think about it for yourself. What is your energy like when at your absolute best? Are you relaxed, calm, intense, hyper, or somewhere in between? Clients sometimes say they “just feel ready,” like they are energized and ready to go. Now think about the factors that give you this great energy, like sleep, diet, exercise, motivation, recent volume, average buy-in, preparation, and emotional state. How did you sleep the night before, or recently? Did what you ate that day, or the night before make a difference? Did you exercise before you played, and does it matter how long and what type of exercise? Does it matter what stakes you play or the difficulty of the lineup? How do your emotions impacted your energy?

 

Remember, just because your energy is ideal doesn’t mean you’re playing your best. You could be easily distracted and watching a movie alongside your tables. You might have just watched some training videos and you’re trying to apply new concepts that you don’t know well enough yet. Ideal energy is different from ideal play, so when you’re looking for examples and descriptions of your best don’t discount times when your energy was great but your play wasn’t.

To consistently get to your peak energy level, I suggest creating a document where you keep notes about these factors and look for trends over time. This is no different than studying your poker game and looking for spots where you’re making money or losing it. As you gain more data about your ideal energy and the factors that produce it, you can build a strategy or routine to make it happen more and more. It’s not that complex but many players lack the discipline to follow through, and that’s a big reason why you should. Lastly, many of my clients are able to reach their peak level of energy more often after they correct the reasons their energy level gets too high or too low.

Reduce Your Energy

boost your energy

If your energy level has become too intense for you to play well, you’re now sliding down the right side of that curve headed for a total brain malfunction. The odds are good that some emotion, for example, excitement, fear, anger, inspiration, or overconfidence, has caused you to go over the edge.

Understanding how to dial back the intensity is a skill and was the main subject of my first book. Here are some cliff notes on how to build emotional control:

Reduce your energy graph

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Consider taking a short break to cool of

 

1. Understand what causes your emotions to become too intense.

Is it anger from bad beats, fear from an intimidating opponent, or overconfidence from a winning streak? If you’re going to gain control of your emotions, you first need to understand what’s driving them.

2. Before you play next, come up with a correction to the emotional reaction that you can say to yourself while you’re playing.

Very often the things we say to ourselves only make the emotion worse. For example, if you get frustrated when you make a mistake, instead of saying, “What an idiot!?! How could I have been so stupid,” try saying, “I don’t make mistakes like that unless something is off – am I tilted, tired, distracted? That’s the real mistake I need to fix.” Or if you get anxious playing against a strong player, instead of saying “He can read my soul. I have no chance,” try saying, “This is going to be tough, but if I play my best I’ll learn something and get some practice playing against players like this. You never know, he could underestimate me and I can find some spots to outplay him.” The best corrections are ones that get at the root of the emotion and are in your own words. If you’re having trouble coming up with a correction, in an upcoming chapter “An Important Update to The Mental Game of Poker” I describe a step-by-step process that can help you come up with one.

3. While you’re playing, spot the signs that your emotions are increasing and repeat that correction in your mind.

You may need to do it several times to decrease the emotion. You may also need to keep repeating it to yourself through the session or tournament. Once emotions have overwhelmed your mind, it’s often easier for them to keep coming back like a fly that won’t leave you alone. Keep fighting, this is how you maintain control, have better energy and become mentally tough.

4. Consider taking a short break to cool off.

Not an ideal solution since it means you’ll miss hands, but in the short-term, while you become mentally tougher, it may be necessary to avoid a big blow-up.

Boost Your Energy

Even when your energy is too low to be ideal, there are ways to push it higher. No matter why your energy is low—bored, tired, or a nutritional crash—you can use a strategy to help boost your emotions up the left side of the curve.

Boost Your Energy

Here how

1. Understand what’s causing your energy to drop too low.

Are you bored from being card dead the last hour, tired from having played for several hours without a break, or are you in a food coma from the huge plate of pasta you ate? While these reasons can all be helped by the strategy in the next step, recognizing why your energy is low will give you an indication of how long you’ll be able to boost your energy before needing to take a break or quit.

2. Before you play next,write down your goals and why they matter to you.

They can be short-term goals for the session or tournament, or long-term goals for the next year or beyond. Let’s say your goal for the session is to play tilt free, the reason that matters to you (beyond the obvious cost) is that you’re tired of losing control and want to prove that you can keep your head together. Let’s say your bigger long-term goal is to win a WSOP bracelet.Write down why a bracelet matters to you. Is it the money? The prestige? To be considered a top player? Or to prove to your family that poker is a serious game? Whatever yourgoal there is always a deeper reason why you want it and you can use that to boost your energy.

3. While you’re playing, spot the early signs that your energy is dropping and in your mind, repeat your goal and the why behind it.

The next time you start to get tired and consider quitting, this could make the difference between leaving the tables and pushing through to finish off a great session. Do that often enough and it can make a huge difference in accomplishing your goal. Just as with excessive emotion, you may need to repeat your goal and its importance to you throughout the rest of the session or tournament.

Boost your energy when it drops.
Being aware that your energy level has dropped or is low can further zap your energy. That’s right, knowing you’re tired can make you more tired. It’s an excuse. Sometimes a subtle one that you’re not even aware has slipped into your mind. Recognizing that you’re giving up can reenergize you to fight for your goals and earn them—no one can make you tilt free or hand you a WSOP bracelet—you’ve got to earn it. Don’t let a little fatigue stand in your way. 
Before you play next, write down your goals and why they matter to you Boost Your Energy

Consistently producing ideal levels of energy is something that players have been focused on more and more. There’s a growing understanding in the community for the role that diet and exercise plays, and while they can certainly help, don’t make the mistake of ignoring how your emotions, goals and focus impacts your energy level.

Jared Tendler, MS, LMHC is licensed therapist specializing in sport psychology and is the leading authority on the mental game in poker. Over his nearly 10 years coaching poker players he has worked with over 500 players hailing from over 45 countries, including many of the top players in the world. He is also the author of 2 best-selling books on the subject, The Mental Game of Poker 1 and Poker 2.

Jared Tendler, MS, LMHC is licensed therapist specializing in sport psychology and is the leading authority on the mental game in poker. Throughout his nearly 10 years coaching poker players he has worked with over 500 players hailing from over 45 countries, including many of the top players in the world. He is also the author of two best-selling books on the subject, The Mental Game of Poker 1 and 2. 

 

Poker Mental Games The Mental Game of Poker
The Mental Game of Poker 1 and 2, we bring you an exclusive, all new, step by step guide on the Mental Game of Poker.

 


Poker Mental Games CHP1. WHY THE MIND MATTERS?
Poker is not a physical game. Even if you’re a player who eats well and works out, the reasons you do are less about poker’s physical demands and more about the mental ones.


Poker Mental Games CHP2. THE RIGHT ENERGY FOR POKER
Like an electrical circuit that overheats and shuts down, the mind can’t function properly when you’re overexcited, tilted, or fearful.


Poker Mental Games CHP3. BECOME A GREAT LOSER
Nobody starts playing poker wanting to lose, but soon you realize it’s inevitable. Of all the skill games, I have yet to discover one where players who have a significant edge over their game.


Poker Mental Games CHP4. A VARIANCE EXPERT
What sets poker apart from other games is variance. Poker is a game of luck and skill where the best players win in the long run, but regularly lose to worse players in the short term.


Poker Mental Games CHP5. CALLING YOURSELF LAZY IS LAZY
Saying you are lazy is paradoxically a lazy thing to do.It’s an excusenot to work on your motivational issue.

 


Poker Mental Games CHP6. DISTRACTED POKER
While most of you would probably scoff at the idea of playing poker while drunk, many of you are playing in a way that is just as bad: distracted.


Poker Mental Games CHP7. DECLUTTERING YOUR MIND
In the last chapter I discussed how focus is your tool for gathering the data you need to make quality decisions at the poker table. But what if you don’t have room in your mind to holdit?


Poker Mental Games CHP8. Why You Make Bad Decisions
You are guaranteed to make bad decisions. But don’t worry, you’re not alone. Every poker player makes them, even the best players in the world. They are inevitable.


Poker Mental Games CHP9. DON'T TRUST THE GUT
Trust your instincts. Follow your heart. Be yourself.Go with your gut. There is a growing trend in society recently to dish out advice that essentially says, doing what feels right, is right. 


Poker Mental Games CHP10. ADDICTED TO SOUL READS
Saying you are lazy is paradoxically a lazy thing to do.It’s an excuse not to work on your motivational issue.


Poker Mental Games CHP11. DRIVING RANGE POKER
Now I want to put it all together and show you how to work on your decision making like a golfer would work on their golf swing.


Poker Mental Games CHP12. BUILDING MENTAL ENDURANCE
One of the great things about online poker is that it’s always open for business. But that doesn’t mean you have a limitless amount of energy to always play.


Poker Mental Games CHP13. WHEN POKER BECOMES PERSONAL
In the last several years I’ve noticed a trend among the clients that came to me for coaching. They are typically players who read The Mental Game of Poker for help with tilt, fear, motivation and confidence, but didn’t improve as much as they wanted.


Poker Mental Games CHP14. AN IMPORTANT UPDATE TO TMGP
The Mental Game of Poker, holds up six years after it was published. However, there is one thing I would change. I should have made a bigger deal of the Mental Hand History.


Poker Mental Games CHP15. WISHING FOR INSTANT IMPROVEMENT
The concept of simply downloading expertise is ludicrous, but the fascination people have about the possibility highlights a commonly held flaw about the learning process.